I think it's a great responsibility to hold and it requires a lot of wisdom, knowledge, money and love.
Just months ago, i wasn't willing yet. HAHA i got to give up alcohol (not that i love alcohol but i like having fun with friends, just drinking, chilling and catching up) but if i were to become pregnant, i got to give it all up (WRONG, once u decided that u want to try to conceive you got to give this up too)
Anyway so i'm 29 this year. seriously growing old. and my husband hope to become a dad by 30? so we were trying... we din get it on the first try but only got it on the third try. The thing about conceiving... it's really a miracle and tbh only God can plant and bless this child inside you. there's really nothing to can do to "work hard" Some people got it easy.. some people got to go through IVF etc etc some people they drink and they conceive? some people they used contraceptives and they conceive? hahaha the thing is, you never know and you can never plan for it to happen in your own time.
So google said do it on your fertile period, the ovulation days etc etc or u can use like pregnancy friendly lubricant etc etc yes you got to follow their advice but this does not necessary means you will conceived. Our science teacher used to tell us when an egg meets a sperm TA DAH, they fertilised and a baby is formed and you're pregnant right? (DANGGGGGGG) WRONG. it's not so easy lor. hahaha but i get it lah, they tell us this to prevent people from having premartial sex. so if i have any couple friends, i will encourage you to just do it unprotected. hahaha cause it's really not easy to conceive. + if you have a goal in mind... it messes with ur brain and you and your partner will become quite stress actually. and ya many will tell you, nono you cannot be stress yada yada but hahaha not that you want to be stress leh, it just happens. LOL so best is when u dont plan for it, you conceive. no stress at all. and u bo bian pregnant already hahahaha (but please make sure you're emotionally and financially stable lah) haha
oh and take folic acid daily when TTC also.
anyway, so the month when i'm finally pregnant, actually i kinda give up already. i was like aiya have then have lah, dont have then dont have. really is NO STRESS SEX, then we got it. (WOAH THANK GOD) thank God that He din make us wait that long... it's really quite agonising you know. everytime when your period is supposed to come, you wonder if it will come or not.. when it comes, you dont know to be happy or sad hahaha then next try? one month later. everytime u failed it's like another month later... (GOSH) like play arcade you know, sorry GG, game over please try again.
i hope that whoever is still trying.. JIAYOU! i know its not easy, just jiayou.
